Andria Frankfort

Back Porch – Traditionally or not, celebrating moms

May 2013
Melissa Garlington, her brother Scott Garlington, and father John Striegler will gather at the family’s farm in Chappell Hill to celebrate mom Betsy Striegler (sitting at right) this Mother’s Day.

Melissa Garlington’s enthusiasm for celebrating her mom, Betsy Striegler, is contagious.

The director of development at the Children’s Museum of Houston says Mother’s Day is like all their family holidays – everyone together at their farm in Chappell Hill, relaxing, “making memories.” With one caveat: On Mother’s Day, mom Betsy will be perched at the kitchen island, glass of wine …

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For Good or Bad, Happy Mother’s Day

May 2013
Sorry, Hallmark. Even babies know that moms have their off days. (Photo: H@ClayPro.com)

If you’re a parent, you’ve been there. The moment you realize you’re not behaving like the role model you thought you were. When life gets in the way and instinct takes over, and something stops you and makes you say, “Wow. I am that person.”

To kick off the month devoted to moms, we thought it would be fun to …

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Back Porch – Well-heeled?

April 2013
Friends Courtney Spafford, Lindsey German, Hayden Rome, Ashley Vallone and Ashley Rosenthal (from left) don't let the height of their heels stop them from having a good time.

They say a good pair of heels will carry you far. I don’t know who “they” are, but I’m betting they’ve never tried making serious headway standing tippie-toed, propped up by two posts no bigger in diameter than a man’s finger.

Some women make graceful work of walking pointy-toed and perched. Those are special women. For the rest of us, …

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Spring Cleaning

April 2013
Debbie Greenberg hangs an upside-down umbrella under her chandelier and then sprays the crystals, letting dirt drip into the umbrella. (Photo: www.lawellphoto.com)

Debbie Greenberg calls herself a domestic engineer. The just-over-5-foot-tall mom of three always has a project going, whether it’s volunteering at her kids’ school or putting together a new business (she opened the Donald J. Pliner store in Highland Village and ran it for several years before selling it and recently has been selling a friend’s jewelry line). But one …

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Seeing Double

March 2013
For years, Carlisle Weaver Brock has been told that she's actress Cameron Diaz's double.

It’s not a bad gig. About once a week, Fay School teacher Carlisle Weaver Brock fields the question, “Do you know who you look like?” Although she knows what’s coming, Carlisle humbly asks, “Who?”

Inevitably the answer is, “Cameron Diaz.”

It’s got to be a confidence boost – not to mention fun – to be told weekly that you’re a …

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Back Porch – Ditching Resolutions

March 2013
Kathryn Rabinow says have more champagne because guilt is overrated.

We’re two months into the new year. Two months into our resolutions for 2013, into life lived virtuously, nose to the grindstone, passing up the cupcakes, speaking kind words or none at all.

But after two months of clean living, it’s time for spring fever to hit hard. That menacing voice starts as a whisper and gets gradually louder, urging …

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Back Porch – Keeping our faith (while losing my mind)

February 2013
In the 2006 comedy Keeping Up With the Steins, plans for a fancy bar mitzvah party get tossed in favor of a backyard gathering for family. (Photo: Keeping Up With The Steins, 2006 - Courtesy of Miramax.)

Quick primer: A bat mitzvah (bar mitzvah for a boy) is the ceremony that marks a Jewish girl’s entrance into religious “adulthood.” At a bat mitzvah, usually held around a 13th birthday, a child leads a religious service and reads from the Torah, symbolically becoming responsible to uphold the values of her religion. It takes months of preparation (and goading

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Serendipity: Fluke or Fate?

February 2013
Justin Clark, Mallory Jenkins and Jared Clark (from left), all 12 and friends for years, only recently found out they all were on the same airplane from Louisville to Houston on 9/11.

Alberta Totz says a year before she and her attorney husband Andy started dating they began seeing each other “in very random places, very often.”

“I knew him growing up but hadn’t seen him in years. Then all of a sudden he was everywhere.” At the car-repair shop, at a baby shower in Austin, at a party they’d both been …

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Back Porch – Feeling grateful

January 2013
Keeping a gratitude jar where family members can write down what they're grateful for helps keep things in perspective.

For the first Back Porch column of 2013, I wanted to write about the power of thinking positively.

Until I visited with Brené Brown.

“I struggle with the whole positive-thinking movement,” Brené says. “Sometimes what we’re walking through isn’t positive. Telling someone they should be thinking positively in any situation can shut them down from feeling what they’re supposed to …

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A Healthy Start

January 2013
Adam

January 1. The ultimate new start. Fresh motivation to set goals, try new things, be better versions of ourselves.

And, of course, get healthy.

Coming off the debauchery that started months ago with Halloween candy and continued through cocktail parties, cookie exchanges and New Year’s Day tamales, a detox is usually a pretty welcome idea. So where to start? Read …

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Back Porch – All lit up

December 2012
Every year, the writer's family boards a horse-drawn carriage in Dallas to see the holiday lights.

A long time ago, a friend likened me to a fish in a bowl – attracted to all things sparkly.

So when the holiday lights pop out, I’m in heaven. The more tinsel on the tree, the better.

In Dallas, where my sister and her family live, horse-drawn sleighs travel nightly from Highland Park Village to neighborhood streets. Every year, …

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Christmas Cheer

December 2012
Julius Glickman and his grandsons Carter Glickman, 10, (at left) and Austin Glickman, 11, make “snowmen” each Christmas morning (there’s also a grown-up version for the adults).

Nothing says “cheer” better than a holiday cocktail. And in the South, no cocktail says “holiday” better than milk punch.

Rooted in Colonial times, milk punch is a storied classic, especially at Christmastime. It was originally concocted for medicinal purposes, possibly the impetus for its reputation in New Orleans as a day-after elixir, like a holiday Bloody Mary. Ben Franklin …

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Turkey Disasters

November 2012
About 40 years ago, Helen Spector had a rocky start trying to roast turkey for her new in-laws. Since then, she's hosted many successful Thanksgivings. (Photo: www.hartphoto.com)

In the mid ‘80s, when John Duncan was in seventh grade, he had no business driving. But the day before Thanksgiving, he took his family’s truck for a ride in the woods behind his East Texas house.

“He immediately got it stuck,” says his mom Mary Duncan. “So he ran home and got all the boys [his three older brothers] …

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Back Porch – Turkey Talk

November 2012
Former dental surgeon Larry Greenfield uses an electric knife to remove a whole turkey breast; then he slices it meticulously and arranges it on a platter for serving.

Growing up, Thanksgiving was magic. The fall air, the full house, the smell. We would wake up to that delicious once-a-year smell, my mom, like a Thanksgiving fairy, having risen hours before the rest of us to start the turkey. Her turkey always looked Norman Rockwell-esque – big, brown and perfect. (See a revision of her recipe in this month’s …

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Old-School Halloween

October 2012
Tiffany Smith has a storage room full of Halloween decorations. She loves the holiday so much she named the family cat Pumpkin. (Photo: www.lawellphoto.com)

When did giant blow-up Halloween spiders become ubiquitous and grocery stores start filling aisles with orange and black plastic – in August? And since when did buying a mass-produced Halloween costume (that’s bound to be worn by someone else on your block) require a two-hour wait in line?

Has Halloween has lost its charm?

Happily, there are still a few …

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